A Pocket Full of Posies
Last time I introduced you to an emerging trend for grooms, the Pocket Boutonniere. This new classic combines the use of the traditional pin on flower and top pocket florish handkerchief into one stunning floral accent. They are easy enough to make which is a big plus for all you Recessionista Brides out there who are on a budget and looking for something not only unique and stylish but easy on the budget.
You will need to know the measurements of the jacket front pocket before creating this charming alternative to the boutonniere, but once you have that, the
rest is easy. A piece of craft foam provides the base, much like the cardboard insert commonly used for the handkerchief point top traditionally used. Craft foam will grip to the inside of the pocket and hold the floral square into place. Then the fresh or silk flowers can be glued to the foam.
From there, you’re only limited by your imagination. A single row or multiple layers, you can create a great floral statement. And best of all, you’re not limited to selecting just one flower, you will be able to coordinate the groom’s floral pocket to his bride’s bouquet, match the groomsmen with the bridesmaids or even just pick up the foliage used in the bouquets and other floral décor.

Boutonnieres Take a Bow
Many grooms are wanting more complex boutonnieres these days. The groom’s boutonniere has long been a staple in the wedding flower industry, formal and not very chic. With bridal flowers and reception décor trending in so many creative directions, I personally think it’s time that the standard groom’s boutonniere gets its own moment to shine.
The traditional formal male attire includes both a pocket handkerchief and a boutonniere, especially for weddings or proms. A while back, I saw an article that combines both concepts into a Floral Pocket Square and I was instantly enchanted with the result. The possibilities are endless and the ability to create a one of a kind floral for the groom will add an additional personal touch to the overall effect of the wedding flowers. Not to menti on that it will hold up so much better through the ceremony, the pictures and the reception, giving the bridal couple another treasured piece of their wedding to preserve. And no worry at all about pin sticks or getting caught on the bride’s dress or worse, the bride herself. And this style of boutonniere gives you alot more flexibility about the types of flowers and greenery you can use.
Stay tuned — Next time I’ll tell you how to create one of these pocket boutonnieres.
Featured Bouquet Flower–Tulips

Tulips always bring spring to mind and with the wide variety of colors available, they make a great addition to any spring wedding. A potential problem when using tulips, particularly as a wedding bouquet, is the fact that they reach for the light. That means they will bend and stretch towards any light source. So if you wanted a hand-tied bouquet of tulips to be straight, you will have to wire and tape the stems, otherwise, those tulips will not cooperate with you. If you don’t adjust for the growth, the tulips will grow and be taller than the other flowers, which isn’t an awful thing, unless you wanted all the flowers to be at the same height.
This is a bridesmaid bouquet with ivory roses, red ranunculus and purple tulips. These tulips are the single variety. In this example, where the tulips are in the middle of the bouquet, they are held in place by the other flowers surrounding them…they will not move and won’t require being wired.

This second picture shows the bridesmaid bouquets with purple tulips inserted into the middle of the bouquets again. These bouquets contain hydrangea, roses, mini callas, tulips and cymbidium orchids.
Here is an example of a centerpiece with pink tulips. This is a good example of the type of arrangement where you would want to insert your tulips shorter than you actually want them to be when you use the centerpiece. Typically, centerpieces are made a day or two in advance. In that day or two, the tulips will grow an inch.
Theme Thoughts
What’s your favorite color? What about your fiance? Picking a color is an important aspect of your wedding planning. Whatever color or colors you choose will lend themselves towards the flower choices, linen choices, dress and tux choices, invitations, favors, possibly even a signature drink choice. More and more we are seeing wedding themes coming a personal statement of the couple who’s special day we are all celebrating.
Keep in mind that the bridal stores are typically one season ahead of the current time. So if it is March, Spring time when you are planning your wedding, you may be looking at Fall/Winter colors at the dress stores. There is an assumption in this business that you will be planning at least six months in advance.
Do you have a theme? Themes can be picked on colors, hobbies, sports, favorite pastimes, ethnic backgrounds, the schools you went to, etc., etc. Samples themes include golf, wine/winery, Seasons such as Spring, Summer, Fall or Winter, travel, a specific Country, gardening, fishing, baseball, football, music, hearts…..let your imagination soar and make sure you are both on the same page!
Arrangement Balancing Act
Creating that perfect arrangements for your reception is not only about the mix of flowers visually, but also the mix of flower scents. If all the flowers in your arrangements are heavily fragranced, it could definitely ruin the effect you were hoping for. And if some of your attendants or guests have allergies, it could make for a miserable time for them. So it is very important to keep in mind not only the flower combination of your arrangements and bouquets but also their fragrances. Even some foliage used in flower arrangements has a scent of their own that needs to be taken into consideration when planning your arrangement and bouquets.
Some of the different types of scent categories flowers and foliage are judged by are Aromatic, Heavy, Citrus, Spicy, Sweet
The Aromatic category includes a lot of foliage and herbs. Dill, Eucalyptus, and Lavender are all part of the Aromatic category. So are most of the greenery used during the Christmas Holiday Season.
The Heavy Fragrance category includes Gardinas, Oriental Lilies, Stephanotis and Tuberose.
The Citrus Category covers Waxflowers and eucharis. Both of these have a light lemony scent
The Spicy or Peppery Category includes Mums, Stock, and Florist Bloom. The prevailing scent in this group is a clove scent with some blooms having a stronger scent than others.
The Sweet Category is the one that always comes to mind when you think of flowers. Hyacinth, Lilac, Carnations, Freesia, Sweet Peas, Lily of the Valley and of course, last but not least, Roses make up this category.
The Dainty White Stephanotis
Stephanotis, also knows as the “Hawaiian Wedding Flower” is a bridal favorite flower, normally reserved for the bridal party bouquets and boutonnieres. It’s the small bright white flower with a tremendous tropical scent. The are the perfect choice for boutonnieres and corsages. Because stephanotis don’t have stems, you have to give them an artificial stem to be able to use them in designs. You can buy “stephanotis stems” …..which have a cotton tube that is inserted into the flower to give the flower moisture attached to a wire. You have to soak the cotton tube end in water before inserting into the flower. You also have to tear off the tiny green stem of the stephanotis, which then gives you a small hole to push the cotton tube into. The cotton tube fills the center of the flower.
Stephanotis is available year round, but is most abundant from late spring to early autumn. I once had a stephanotis plant in my yard. When I bought it at the nursery I bought a Madagascar Jamine plant. I was so surprised when it bloomed and I had stephanotis!
When you buy stephanotis, look for blooms that are bright white, waxy and firm. When they are old they will start turning yellow, get wilty, sometimes have mold on them or bruising.
Normally, you will find stephanotis sold by the box, with 25 flowers inside. These flowers do not have stems, per se, and once they are harvested they cannot absorb water through the tiny stem. That is why they are sold in air tight boxes with damp shredded tissue or other dampened material on the bottom of the box…to give the flowers moisture. Once in a while, you can buy stephanotis still on the vine, but that would be only at a professional flower market.
Stephanotis needs to be hydrating when you get in home…so float the flowers in room temperature water for 20-30 minutes then put in the
refrigerator, still soaking, for two hours.
After soaking, shake the water off the florets and place them back into an airtight container in the refrigerator until ready to use them.
Color Me Married
Last year it was all about hot pink and lime green, vivid blues, bright yellows and tangerine oranges. This year, be prepared to see a return to a more neutral pallet with brilliant vivid colors stepping out of the spotlight and back into a supporting role. Taupes and greys with either one bold color or a combination of two contrasting color is one trend already starting to take the lead in wedding planning for this year.
Pantone, the standard in color definition has announced that a shade called Honeysuckle which is a variation of dark pink as being a big contender in choosing wedding colors. Pairing this with greens, browns or a lovely neutral champagne is another front runner in wedding colors. Another color combination that is shaping up to be popular this year are purple and silver.
Using varying shades of the same color is still a strong contender in creating your perfect wedding. By spinning that monochromatic color wheel across several different textures between your flowers, dresses and the decor for your reception in a great dramatic effect.
Another trend making an appearance this year is brides choosing to use up to 4 different colors when creating the right look for their wedding and reception.
Adding that special touch to your centerpieces.
Every bride wants her reception to be uniquely her style and the last thing anybody wants to overhear at their wedding are the guests talking about how much your centerpieces look just like somebody else’s. And face, tha is a possibility. But one way you can add a little of your own personality into your arrangements is by adding something special to the vase itself. Whether you are planning to use a bubble bowl or a tall stately glass vase, there are literally hundreds of different things you can use to help secure your flower stems into place and create an added splash of color.
River rocks are very popular. Available in a wide variety of earth tones, these polished stones work very well with almost any type of vase you are planning to use. Readily available in every craft store and department store with a silk flower section, river rocks come in three general sizes, small, medium and large. River rocks also work well to help secure your arrangements into place.
Glass and acrylic beads are also a very popular way to add color and pizazz to your arrangements. They come in a variety of colors, shapes and sizes. Like river rock, glass beads and shapes depending on their size will also help support your arrangement in the bottom of the vase. Most acrylic beads are usually added for splashes of color. Their lighter weight will not always support heaver stemmed flowers so they’re used more for their decorative appearance that as additional flower support. Acrylic and glass beads are also available in a variety of gem shapes, which make them just perfect for a wedding
reception. Not to mention that they are available in a wide assortment of colors.
Shells, marbles, wood slices, even aquarium gravel, just about anything you can think of can be used to create a unique setting for your arrangements. I have actually even used broken windshield glass with spectacular results.
How Big is Too Big?
How do I know how big to make my bouquet?
That answer varies from bride to bride. The easy answer is this, make the bouquet as big or little as is pleasing to you. However, I can give you some guidelines that will help if you really don’t know what is pleasing to you. I rarely make a bouquet that is smaller than a six inch diameter. That means, if you were to take a ruler or tape measure out and placed it directly across the center of the bouquet from one end to the other you would measure six inches on the ruler. I think an eight inch bouquet is the smallest I recommend for a bride. If you are on an extreme budget, I would recommend an eight inch diameter bouquet for you and six inch diameter bouquets for your bridesmaids. Beyond that, I look at your size and decide what would look best for you to carry, keeping in mind that you don’t want to HIDE behind your flowers. YOU are the focus of attention and your flowers are there to enhance how YOU look walking down the aisle. I have had brides who wanted a six inch diameter bouquet for themselves and gave single flowers to the bridesmaids to carry.
One of the things you want to keep in mind here is that your bouquet should ALWAYS be the biggest and nicest of the wedding party bouquets. You don’t want your bridesmaids to carry bouquets bigger than yours! If you wanted to carry a cascade bouquet, I always ask how tall you are and then when I am making the cascade I hold it up to someone who is the same height to be sure it hits near the knee and not the floor. I have had pregnant brides who needed larger bouquets because it was their desire to cover up their tummies with their bouquet. So, there is always going to be a reason to customize YOUR bouquet to your taste and your situation.
Tell her she is the Pot of Gold at the end of your rainbow
As we come to the end of this wonderfully romantic week, I have something new and fantastic to share with you. How magically could it be to present the love of your life with the most unique bouquet of rainbow colored roses, making sure she knows you believe she is the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow as far as you are concerned. Guess what, that dream is now a reality!
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